① Remember that your thoughts are always a battle between white and dark forces. What you can do is to chose which side to take. Love breeds love, hate breads hate. White leaders create love that conquers everything. Dark leaders create hate and advocate sanctions that nourish hate. Do you want to nourish hate or love? Do you want to be remembered as a person who spread love or hate?

② Resist to be influenced by hate-driven dark leaders. If a colleague of yours chose to be a dark sanction-addict leader, you don't have to do the same. Choose to be a white leader. Choose to be  a victor because love always wins, be it in a short or a long run. Choose paradise, not hell for your current life and your life after death.

③ Lead yourself. Whiten your goals, and your goals will whiten you. Live the 'Golden Rule' given to us by Jesus "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" − and you will never advocate sanctions again. Acknowledge that you can see just a tiny part of the whole picture. "The bird thinks it is an act of kindness to give the fish a lift in the air," wrote Rabindranath Tagore, a Nobel Prize winner. So be wiser than that bird, be a homo sapiens! Don't impose what is good for you on others because they are not you and have their own values that are as good as yours.